This piece was first published on Soberistas in May 2017 Sometimes I still get angry when I think about my ex boyfriend. I look back on our four and a half years together and I curse myself for the million minuscule decisions I made along the path to choosing him, and staying with him well after I realised our relationship was deeply destructive to my sense of self. I yearn for the power to turn back time, reset the clock, reclaim the years and the energy that I lost. Not to